Humanity’s Longest Losing Streak

Scot Small

If you step back far enough, the ache begins to make sense.

Human history isn’t the story of people who didn’t try hard enough. It’s the story of people who tried nearly everything they could think of and still came up short. Over and over again.


At the beginning, things were good in a way that wasn’t fragile or naive. Humanity was created for relationship, for trust, for connection with God and with one another. That trust was the soil everything was meant to grow from. But when it was broken, the fracture ran deeper than we realized at the time.


From there, the pattern repeated itself.


We tried power, believing strength and control could restore order. Power corrupted as often as it protected. We tried rules and systems, hoping structure could keep us from falling apart. They shaped behavior for a while, but they never healed what was underneath. We tried strong leaders, kings, heroes, people who promised they could carry the weight for us. They failed.


We tried religion, even when it hurts to admit it. What was meant to be relationship often became performance and comparison. We tried progress, convinced that if we could just get smarter, faster, and more advanced, we would finally outrun the ache. Technology advanced. The human soul didn’t.


Generation after generation, the same brokenness showed up wearing new clothes. It wasn’t a lack of effort. It was a misunderstanding of where the real problem lived.


I think about gardening when I think about this. You can have good seed and sincere intention, but if the soil is wrong, growth never lasts. Weeds choke life. Roots stay shallow. From a distance things may look promising for a season, but eventually the weakness underneath shows itself.


That’s been our story.


We’ve tried to fix surface issues without healing the deeper break. We’ve focused on behavior, achievement, and control while ignoring the soil of the heart where everything actually grows. The Old Testament, when read honestly, doesn’t feel like a list of religious demands. It reads like a long, unfiltered record of humanity’s losing streak and God’s refusal to walk away.


Promise after promise. Rescue after rescue. Patience stretched far beyond what seems reasonable. And still the ache remains.


Not because God was absent.

But because the break was deeper than effort could ever reach.


At some point, the truth became unavoidable. If this was ever going to be healed, God Himself would have to step into the fracture.


If you missed the first part of this series you can read it here:
https://battlefieldfca.org/the-ache-we-try-to-decorate-at-christmas


I will wrap this up in a few days. Stay tuned


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There is a big difference between knowing about Jesus and actually knowing Jesus. A person can know facts about Him. They can know Bible stories, Christian language, church routines, and even the right answers. They can know that Jesus died on the cross, rose from the grave, and is coming again. But knowing true things about Jesus is not the same as living in relationship with Him. In John 15, Jesus does not say, “Learn more religious information and try harder.” He says, “Abide in me.” That word carries the idea of remaining, staying, dwelling, continuing. Jesus is calling His disciples into a life of ongoing dependence on Him. “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener.” That picture matters. A branch does not produce fruit by effort alone. It produces fruit because it is connected to the vine. The life of the vine flows into the branch. Apart from the vine, the branch may still look attached for a while, but it cannot bear lasting fruit. That is one of the quiet dangers in Christian life. We can keep the appearance of connection while slowly drifting from dependence. We can stay busy in ministry, sports, leadership, family, and service, but inwardly we are running on fumes. Jesus does not call that fruitfulness. He calls us back to Himself. Jesus says, “The one who remains in me and I in him produces much fruit, because you can do nothing without me.” That is not meant to insult us. It is meant to free us. We are not the source. We were never meant to be. For athletes and coaches, this is easy to miss because sports trains us to push harder, compete longer, and produce results. There is a place for discipline, effort, and training. But spiritual fruit is different. You cannot manufacture love, joy, peace, endurance, holiness, humility, courage, or obedience by sheer willpower. Those things grow from union with Christ. This is where obedience has to be understood rightly. Jesus says, “If you keep my commands you will remain in my love.” He is not describing cold religion or fear-based performance. He is describing the natural response of someone who loves Him and trusts Him. Obedience is not how we earn His love. Obedience is one of the ways we remain close to the One who already loves us. That matters because many people either separate love and obedience or confuse them. Some want the comfort of Jesus without surrender. Others try to obey Jesus without resting in His love. Both miss the heart of discipleship. Jesus holds them together. “As the Father has loved me, I have also loved you. Remain in my love.” John 15:9 That is staggering. Jesus is not offering a thin, fragile, emotional kind of love. He says the love He has for His disciples is rooted in the love between the Father and the Son. That means Christian obedience begins in being loved by Christ before it ever becomes action for Christ. Then Jesus says something that should reshape how we think about discipleship: “I have spoken these things to you so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.” John 15:11 Jesus is not trying to shrink our lives. He is not calling us into obedience so we can become miserable religious people. He calls us to abide, obey, love, and bear fruit because He knows where life is found. His commands are not chains. They are the path of life under His rule and care. And the fruit Jesus emphasizes here is love. “This is my command: Love one another as I have loved you.” John 15;12 That means abiding in Jesus cannot remain private. Real connection to Christ becomes visible in how we love people. Not just people who are easy to love. Not just people who help our goals. Not just teammates, leaders, donors, or friends who make life simpler. Jesus says His love becomes the pattern for our love. He loved sacrificially. He moved toward sinners. He served the weak. He corrected the proud. He washed feet. He laid down His life. So the question is not simply, “Do I believe in Jesus?” A deeper question is, “Am I remaining in Him?” Am I depending on Him? Am I receiving His words? Am I obeying His commands? Am I loving people in a way that looks like Him? This is where readiness for Christ’s return begins. Not with speculation. Not with panic. Not with trying to decode every headline. Readiness begins with abiding. A disciple who is abiding in Christ is not passive. They are watchful, prayerful, obedient, humble, and available. They are not perfect, but they are connected to the source of life. They are being pruned by the Father, shaped by the Word, and led into fruitfulness by the Spirit. The Christian life is not about looking attached. It is about remaining in Jesus. And today, before we ask what we need to do for Him, maybe we need to ask whether we are staying close to Him. Are you wondering how you can make difference? Maybe Sports Ministry could be a path for you. 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