The Path No One Was Looking For

Scot Small

That’s why Christmas matters in a way that still unsettles me.

 The Path No ONe Was Looking for - Scot Small

God didn’t arrive with force or spectacle. He didn’t come wrapped in authority or positioned at the center of influence. There was no demand for allegiance, no display of dominance meant to silence opposition. Instead, He came quietly, choosing vulnerability over power and obscurity over recognition.


A child.


Born into limitation. Born into dependence. Born into the very mess humanity had been trying and failing to clean up on its own.


After centuries of failure, we would expect a solution that looked strong and unmistakable. But God chose a path that looked weak by every worldly standard. That wasn’t an accident. It was the point.


This wasn’t God shouting instructions from a distance. This was God stepping fully into the human experience. Into temptation and loss, into suffering and grief, into the weight we all carry whether we talk about it or not. Jesus didn’t come merely to show us a better way to behave. He came to heal what had been broken at its source.


The path He offered was nothing like the ones we had been chasing. It didn’t begin with climbing higher or proving ourselves worthy. It began with surrender, with trust, with restoration that works from the inside out.


That path has changed me, slowly and imperfectly. I’ve walked enough other roads to know where they lead. I’ve chased success, approval, control, and certainty, and none of them quieted the ache for very long.

This one did something different. It didn’t remove struggle from my life, but it changed my direction.


And direction matters more than momentum.


Christmas isn’t about preserving a moment in history. It’s about God making a way where none existed, opening a path that leads somewhere completely different than the one the world keeps selling us.


Maybe that’s why this season still stirs us. The ache we try so hard to decorate isn’t a flaw or a weakness. It’s a signal. Something was broken. Someone came to heal it. And the path is still there, quiet and patient, waiting to be noticed.


Whether we’re ready to walk it is something each of us has to wrestle with for ourselves.


If this idea of a different path stirs something in you, and you’re not sure what to do with it, you don’t have to sort it out alone. If you want to talk, ask questions, or simply wrestle with it out loud, I’m here. No pressure. Just a conversation. Reach out anytime.


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By Scot Small May 19, 2026
There is a big difference between knowing about Jesus and actually knowing Jesus. A person can know facts about Him. They can know Bible stories, Christian language, church routines, and even the right answers. They can know that Jesus died on the cross, rose from the grave, and is coming again. But knowing true things about Jesus is not the same as living in relationship with Him. In John 15, Jesus does not say, “Learn more religious information and try harder.” He says, “Abide in me.” That word carries the idea of remaining, staying, dwelling, continuing. Jesus is calling His disciples into a life of ongoing dependence on Him. “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener.” That picture matters. A branch does not produce fruit by effort alone. It produces fruit because it is connected to the vine. The life of the vine flows into the branch. Apart from the vine, the branch may still look attached for a while, but it cannot bear lasting fruit. That is one of the quiet dangers in Christian life. We can keep the appearance of connection while slowly drifting from dependence. We can stay busy in ministry, sports, leadership, family, and service, but inwardly we are running on fumes. Jesus does not call that fruitfulness. He calls us back to Himself. Jesus says, “The one who remains in me and I in him produces much fruit, because you can do nothing without me.” That is not meant to insult us. It is meant to free us. We are not the source. We were never meant to be. For athletes and coaches, this is easy to miss because sports trains us to push harder, compete longer, and produce results. There is a place for discipline, effort, and training. But spiritual fruit is different. You cannot manufacture love, joy, peace, endurance, holiness, humility, courage, or obedience by sheer willpower. Those things grow from union with Christ. This is where obedience has to be understood rightly. Jesus says, “If you keep my commands you will remain in my love.” He is not describing cold religion or fear-based performance. He is describing the natural response of someone who loves Him and trusts Him. Obedience is not how we earn His love. Obedience is one of the ways we remain close to the One who already loves us. That matters because many people either separate love and obedience or confuse them. Some want the comfort of Jesus without surrender. Others try to obey Jesus without resting in His love. Both miss the heart of discipleship. Jesus holds them together. “As the Father has loved me, I have also loved you. Remain in my love.” John 15:9 That is staggering. Jesus is not offering a thin, fragile, emotional kind of love. He says the love He has for His disciples is rooted in the love between the Father and the Son. That means Christian obedience begins in being loved by Christ before it ever becomes action for Christ. Then Jesus says something that should reshape how we think about discipleship: “I have spoken these things to you so that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.” John 15:11 Jesus is not trying to shrink our lives. He is not calling us into obedience so we can become miserable religious people. He calls us to abide, obey, love, and bear fruit because He knows where life is found. His commands are not chains. They are the path of life under His rule and care. And the fruit Jesus emphasizes here is love. “This is my command: Love one another as I have loved you.” John 15;12 That means abiding in Jesus cannot remain private. Real connection to Christ becomes visible in how we love people. Not just people who are easy to love. Not just people who help our goals. Not just teammates, leaders, donors, or friends who make life simpler. Jesus says His love becomes the pattern for our love. He loved sacrificially. He moved toward sinners. He served the weak. He corrected the proud. He washed feet. He laid down His life. So the question is not simply, “Do I believe in Jesus?” A deeper question is, “Am I remaining in Him?” Am I depending on Him? Am I receiving His words? Am I obeying His commands? Am I loving people in a way that looks like Him? This is where readiness for Christ’s return begins. Not with speculation. Not with panic. Not with trying to decode every headline. Readiness begins with abiding. A disciple who is abiding in Christ is not passive. They are watchful, prayerful, obedient, humble, and available. They are not perfect, but they are connected to the source of life. They are being pruned by the Father, shaped by the Word, and led into fruitfulness by the Spirit. The Christian life is not about looking attached. It is about remaining in Jesus. And today, before we ask what we need to do for Him, maybe we need to ask whether we are staying close to Him. Are you wondering how you can make difference? Maybe Sports Ministry could be a path for you. 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